Boyfriend > friends?

 

Okay I couldn't think of a counter for chicks before dicks.

I believe we all have had friends who would give priority to their boyfriends.

Well I guess its understandable since they could be a major part in each others life for forever.

But friends can be too.

I have a friend, who is still an important friend. I know her since we were 13, very close till 14, drifted at 15/16, and closer than ever at 17/18. Now we are both 19, still in contact, still great friends.

There are some friends you know you can always rely on, which I am that kind of friend for her. No matter how irritated I am at her sometimes, if she needs me, I'll be there.

But I am not sure if she'll be there for me, if I need her.

Well I guess we are friends which are rare cos we can talk to each other about our relationship problems, yet can not talk to each other. HAHAS.

Maybe because I am at the age where friends become attached (serious relationships I mean) , its interesting to see how different people see different things. I have other friends, who sees their partners as a part of them. They are in seperable, and want to shout out to the rest of the world they are a couple.

She is that kind of pretty, honest bitch, who really dont care what you see of her. I actually went to her school, which was about an hour of travelling. & so she introduced me to her boyfriend, then we left like 10 minutes later, because her boyfriend needs to leave. & so we left her school, for another place, which is way nearer to my place, to WAIT for another friend. No seriously. You tell me friends are important, but you totally did not think about all the trouble I took.
That did hurt my feelings a little. But I guess friends are always less important.
Although she texts me a lot when she is w her boyfriend, she texts her boyf a lot when she is with me. Furthermore, how often do you see him and how often do you see me? If you wanna talk to him more than me, then yeah bye Im leaving. But I guess she doesnt see it like that, so yeah. Though I am still affected.

I try to strike a balance, friends and boyfriend. I guess sometimes its hard, but I think its about putting in effort for the person you are physically spending time with. Whats the point if youre here but not here? Then I might as well leave.

I actually told my boyf, who is serving the army, that I am w a friend so I cant text him now. Then can you, at least show a bit of respect for my principles, and not text your boyf which you will see the very next day? Do you know how rarely can my boyf talk to me? You obviously don't.

Or is it that I dont value him enough?